Ty for the help.
I understand what you are saying but my situation with K is weird to say the least.
But I did, I admit, not make the title of the op clear enough.
a better title, now i have thought about it, would be:
why Kaspersky not follow MY defender rules ?
Can it not tell which rules are which ? ie which are set by me ,the administrator , and other things w/e they may be.
I am not really interested in anyone telling me what is best for me. I know what that is. It was just a simple question I thought. Apparently not . I have uninstalled K, and all is working again as I like it too, so np now this thread serves no purpose and can be closed or w/e. It is not solved as the answers are all of the, "Trust me Bro" - I am a piece of software and I do what I want not what you want ok, Variety.
and, its for your own good, type stuff. I am not senile, yet at least, and am capable of working out what is for my own good or not and unfortunately it has never stopped me from doing anything 😉