No, had it right and it's the top -- nope, second -- one in the recommended link I sent: Adaware. It is known for its ability to play second fiddle, and when I found the install info it announced to me that's what it was doing. So Kaspersky, then, IS the issue! And interestingly since I uninstalled it my computer has not blued its screen of death at me once.
When I went to 'Kaspersky' on my computer's start menu, and opened the icon, too, back when I had it, it only said Kaspersky Free. Top left where it's supposed to say what version (I read and followed all the Don't Post Until You Get Your Info Down stuff first). And since I'm in the Free section of the Kaspersky forum, I thought that was a given. All I can see now is non-California when I pretend to download it again.
Bitdefender? Nope. I DID have some McAfee tag on from MS, and I had used TrendMicro for $$$ I got tired of paying, plus they blocked documentaries, but even Kaspersky said that was all removed.
So if I kill the Adaware and reinstall Kaspersky, will I still have crashes, I wonder? Am going to bed; be back tomorrow to see if this helps. Really appreciate your help, Flood & Flood's Beloved!